Definitely in panic mode.
My wedding is about a month away and I feel sooo behind with my wedding preps.
I haven't finalized the songs for the church. We haven't even decided if we will be asking the choir to sing for the reception. (Guys, yours thoughts on this please?)
I still haven't prepared the misalette for the ceremony.
I still do not have a reception programme. V and I want a no-frills wedding reception. We just want people to be happy and celebrate with us. I finally talked him into doing the first dance. (Just a thought, Uso pa ba yung money dance?)
I still do not have a unity candle (Cha, what is this for anyway?). I plan to just buy a big candle in SM and decorate it with the personalized ribbons I had made.
I haven't finalized the guest list (V has not given me his list!!!) and the seating plan.
I'm sooo doomed!
I am often sooo swamped with work and so tired when I get home that I. cannot. find. the. time. to. do. wedding. preparations.
Seriously. I want to cry naaaa.
To my sisters and friends-- I'll be asking for some help in the coming weeks. I hope you don't mind if I give you some duties on the day itself. Help keep me sane!!!!
7 comments:
buns, having a choir sing at the reception isn't so uso anymore. plus your reception is outdoors so panget the acoustics. yes, uso pa yung money dance. i think the unity candle you can buy in one of those catholic or wedding stores.
let me know what i can do! and let's do the dress thing this sunday, ok? :)
No need for the choir to sing at the reception, especially if you have to pay them extra. You'll have to worry pa about their food and all. Better if good music yung sa reception.
Misalette - why not ask V to do this na lang? Jovan was the one who worked on our misalette, until printing.
Reception programme - do you have a host already? If you get a professional host he/she can help you out with this. Remind me to dig up my files. Moneydance is up to the couple, ok to have it, ok not to have it.
Unity candle is not necessary. :) It's a nice to have. Unless the Church has new rules on it na.
You should finalize the guest list NOW (as in now na) because you should release your invites na. Best to release around 1 - 1 1/2 months so that people can plan ahead.
can i be honest and mean? i was laughing my a$$ off while reading this post! :p
BUNNS! ANUKAVAH! what else do you need?
i'll leave most of the help to come from Cha since she's been a bride na... ako, bride to be palang eh.
but seriously, kung ano man ang maitutulong ko bilang isang kapit bahay, just text or e-mail me.
p.s. will a really macho and large d*cked stripper relieve you temporarily of your worries ;)
Keep in mind that this is YOUR WEDDING. And you don't have to make anyone happy with it or fulfill anyone else's expectations of it.
So you can actually just get rid of tradition and stick to the things you like and what makes you and your hubby-to-be happy.
Breathe! These are happy times.
Okay-- I won't ask the choir to sing at the reception. I've actually prepapred songs that can be played during the reception already.
Meow: Yes, we're tuloy on Sunday. Sabay kayo ni Sunshine, my sister who's arriving from the US on Saturday. Her gown is already made but she needs to fit it.
Cha: Will have to ask the church if they require a unity candle. I can definitely go without it. Our friend is hosting the reception. Will talk to her na lang.
Notsquare: oooohhhhhh! Maybe it would help--temporarily. BWAHAHAHA!
Ilongga: Haaaay! You know naman the oldies--madaming masasabi. Hehehe! Inhale, exhale!
p.s. re: seating arrangement - happy na kame (the "M" group) for as long as you seat us near the food ;)
so, what help do you need?
buns, thank you for remembering. labs you tuuuuuuu! :)
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