Really.
You see, there is a guy. I find him
He called me and asked me out on a second date 15 minutes after our first date.
He's nice, too nice in fact, and he has made it pretty clear that he likes me. He's already given me a nickname (not going to say) and he calls, texts, chats with me online pretty much everyday.
Seems great, right?
BUT.
I guess I just don't find him that intellectually stimulating, which is probably why I've been turning him down aka taking rain checks for the past 2 weeks. Don't get me wrong, he's not dumb and he can make me laugh but I dunno, it's just not what I'm looking for.
I'm a person who thrives on conversation and while this guy makes sense, I just don't see myself spending an entire day just talking to him or just enjoying comfortable silence. He called me the other night and after 20 minutes on the phone-- *crickets*-- there was nothing to talk about anymore and it was a tad awkward.
A part of me wants to keep him (gwapo kasi eh. hahaha!) and another part of me wants to nip it in the bud. Some of my friends say that maybe I shouldn't shut him down so early on and give him a chance. That maybe I just need to get to know him more. Some say that maybe my recent heartbreak is causing me to become a little pessimistic.
Haaay. Pwedeng bang pakurot or pa-kiss na lang? :D
1 comment:
I say don't continue any romantic whatever with this guy. Keep him as a friend... we all need eye candy! But nothing will last long-term if he can't turn you on intellectually. Think of it - when you're both old and wrinkly and he's not cute anymore, it's conversation that will keep your relationship alive.
There has to be a healthy balance of both. Don't compromise.
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